"The worth of a book is to be measured by what you can carry away from it." (James Bryce)

Wednesday, November 21, 2012

BE DIFFERENT (John Elder Robison)

Robison, also the author of "Look Me In the Eye," writes simply and honestly about his struggles growing up with undiagnosed Asperger's, offering advice and encouragement to fellow Aspie's and neuro-typicals alike.  I think that the title says it all.  Simply put, Asperger's is a neurological condition that typically causes an inability to recognize and process social cues, often resulting in odd behavior and a lack of emotional connection with others.  Robison, diagnosed at age 40, has chosen to put a positive spin on his differences, celebrating being different.  His book covers 4 major areas of concern for Aspies and their families: Rituals, Manners, & Quirks; Emotions; Getting Along With Others; and Sensitivity to the Nonhuman World.  If you know or love anyone with Asperger's, you will recognize many of the feeling and situations experienced by Robison during his childhood and adult years.

 The final chapter, Finding Your Gifts, is, I believe the highlight of the book, encouraging those on the autism spectrum to use their atypical characteristics to their advantage, finding a way to turn their "disability" into a strength.  It is no secret that some of our greatest scientists and business people, including Albert Einstein and Bill Gates, are believed to have Asperger's.  These men (and most are men) have used their neurological differences to accomplish great things, finding ways to turn their "special skills" into successful careers.  Robison makes no bones about the need for hard work and focus, but believes that the Aspergian who is able to focus on their interests and apply them to the real world can achieve success.

Robison includes a handy appendix that includes the diagnostic criteria for Asperger's.  This is a wonderful resource for anyone dealing with Asperger's in any respect.  Robison is personal and insightful.

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